What is SSR...? :) hmmm...Thats smthing which bothers me a lot..ever and ever...
Whenever i plan to do smthing to which my heart and mind both agree...these SSRs play a vital role..They stop me...pressurize me...try to change me...and they work man...! i dont do what i feel like doin the most !!!
This is not a suspense story..So i better tell u what SSRs are...They are "Society Satisfying Rules"...:)) Now if u read whatever i have written before is so much similar to what u all experience...
What is society ? According to me its not everyone around...There is a group of people around us who know us and we know them and their comments matter...For each person society is different...So what we do is...after having these pple in our mind...we define some rules...May be we assume that if i do this "xyz" might say this...and blve me this is true...!!! This "Society" of ours keeps on increasing in size as and when we meet new people..hence the rules too!!!...
To be honest..we also discuss few pple..their styles..their behavioral patterns...We comment on that...i wonder how many times i find out..If smthing smone did was weird according to me..then why was it so normal for him/her...Do i think about the reason at all?? No i dont ...My honest answer is no...So for many ..I am part of their society and many times my comments become SSRs for them...
God...I was so wrong...I never want to become Society for anyone...Let them have the freedom of living and ruling there own life....
And coming to the main point.."Hey my society....Live and let live "....
Here i am waiting to live life without SSRs...
Sayali
9 comments:
You can always chose to be a free impartial and supportive society. That would be more helpful and proactive than not being a part of any society at all
Very good point you raise... the question of who is more important- society or self has been raging on since time immemorial.. I personally agree with you whole heartedly.. down with a narrow,opressionist society..hum vahi karenge joh dil kehta hai.. :)
well if u see the latest trend everyone is searching for self expression.they search it on blogs,networking sites or chat rooms. its like they are drifting from the society as we know it and joining societies where image is not a obligation. Online u are a different avtaar speaking your mind out.
Looks like you hit the bull's eye. Your point is well described wnd worth appreciating. It is something that bothers many of us. To a certain extent, even I respect SSR, although the 'S' is very very small. For all others, simply follow the 3rd state in digital devices - 'X' - DONT CARE !!!
Good one
SSRs...they're very necessary! and nobody can be free from them -- if u r a part of society .. u have to follow the rules...thats how our mind works!
I think a person shouldn't hold back himself if he believes that he's got a great idea but radical!
but that does not mean that he should wear yellow pant + green belt + red shirt + silver jacket + orange shoes!!! :P
chala kahitari navin shikayala milale... kharech changale lihilay... tu author vagaire vhayala pahije...
by the way... mala tuza ha blog orkut varun bhetala aani mee mazya blog madhye je kahi vichar(??) lihile hote tech tuzya blog madhye disale... in fact mazya blog chi copy asalyasarakhe vatatay... tyamule interesting vatale... tyat eka porine hey sagale lihilay mhanun ajunach interesting vatale... asa aani evadha vichar karanari tu pahilich poragi mee baghitaliy... i mean mala porinchya husharibaddal doubt nahiye... pan tari aahe... i mean hota...
AnyWays.. keep posting ur views...
kuddos... OUR new gen SSR ( self satisfactory rules)....life our way!
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