What is SSR...? :) hmmm...Thats smthing which bothers me a lot..ever and ever...
Whenever i plan to do smthing to which my heart and mind both agree...these SSRs play a vital role..They stop me...pressurize me...try to change me...and they work man...! i dont do what i feel like doin the most !!!
This is not a suspense story..So i better tell u what SSRs are...They are "Society Satisfying Rules"...:)) Now if u read whatever i have written before is so much similar to what u all experience...
What is society ? According to me its not everyone around...There is a group of people around us who know us and we know them and their comments matter...For each person society is different...So what we do is...after having these pple in our mind...we define some rules...May be we assume that if i do this "xyz" might say this...and blve me this is true...!!! This "Society" of ours keeps on increasing in size as and when we meet new people..hence the rules too!!!...
To be honest..we also discuss few pple..their styles..their behavioral patterns...We comment on that...i wonder how many times i find out..If smthing smone did was weird according to me..then why was it so normal for him/her...Do i think about the reason at all?? No i dont ...My honest answer is no...So for many ..I am part of their society and many times my comments become SSRs for them...
God...I was so wrong...I never want to become Society for anyone...Let them have the freedom of living and ruling there own life....
And coming to the main point.."Hey my society....Live and let live "....
Here i am waiting to live life without SSRs...
Sayali
Sunday, April 27, 2008
SSR...:)
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Mala kay pharak padto...?
Mala kay pharak padto..? ha keval tumhala mala padnara prashna nahiye...tashi ek jamat ahe....jicha nav ahe.."mala kay pharak padto ? ? ?" mhanje ...
kuni mela tari...jagala tari...
Kuni padala tari..hat pay tutala tari...
kuni radala tari...jhagadala tarii....
harala tari...jinkala tari suddha...
ashi kahi loka astat..jyanna swatachya ayushyat kahich pharak nahit....tyanna kahi aikala tari...."ohh..bapre...ho ka? ...hmm...asel buva....kahihi...." yashivay kahich vatat nahi...to vishay tyanchyasathi tithech sampto...
"Initiative" kivva "proactiveness" navachi vitamins ashya lokanna lahanpanapasun kami miltat..."politiccal correctness" cha vitamin matra bhar-bharun asta...!!! mala koutuk vatata ashya lokancha khara tar...Samorchyala kivva samorchya paristhitila apali garaj ahe he olakhunahi tasa dakhavyachach nahi....bhayankar motha skill ahe...mhanje...:) "bhayankar" mottha skill ahe...:)))
aso tar ashi he jamat ahe...tya jamatit apan rahaycha ki nahi ha jyachya tyacha prashna ahe...pan jagat jithe kuni kunala vicharat nahi..tithe ashya jamatila samul nashta karana khup khup mahatwacha ahe...!
kuni mela tari...jagala tari...
Kuni padala tari..hat pay tutala tari...
kuni radala tari...jhagadala tarii....
harala tari...jinkala tari suddha...
ashi kahi loka astat..jyanna swatachya ayushyat kahich pharak nahit....tyanna kahi aikala tari...."ohh..bapre...ho ka? ...hmm...asel buva....kahihi...." yashivay kahich vatat nahi...to vishay tyanchyasathi tithech sampto...
"Initiative" kivva "proactiveness" navachi vitamins ashya lokanna lahanpanapasun kami miltat..."politiccal correctness" cha vitamin matra bhar-bharun asta...!!! mala koutuk vatata ashya lokancha khara tar...Samorchyala kivva samorchya paristhitila apali garaj ahe he olakhunahi tasa dakhavyachach nahi....bhayankar motha skill ahe...mhanje...:) "bhayankar" mottha skill ahe...:)))
aso tar ashi he jamat ahe...tya jamatit apan rahaycha ki nahi ha jyachya tyacha prashna ahe...pan jagat jithe kuni kunala vicharat nahi..tithe ashya jamatila samul nashta karana khup khup mahatwacha ahe...!